Many years ago, after attending a workshop in which the topic of judgment came up, I asked my son, at the time a simple question:
“What would this world be like if there was no judgment?” He pondered the question for a few moments, looked up into my eyes, and answered with a sweetness and sincerity found in children, “Why, Mom, it would be like Heaven.”
A Victim No More: How to Break Free of Self-Judgement teaches many tools and principles that you can apply to change your life forever. As I share my story, it will help you move from living as a victim to one of being free of the old patterns that cause so much pain, frustration and confusion. One of the most important ways to do so is showing you how to end the cycle of judgment – of judging yourself and others and situations. Many of us who have emerged from living in victim consciousness know all too well that we have been living from a limited view of our world.
All too often, our decisions are made from an automatic response or reflex, rather than from our full human potential. The emptiness and loneliness that accompany victimhood become mere memories. Once we release the past and leave victimhood behind, our bodies, minds and souls can all work together to bring a balanced, happy life. This life can be free of the confusion, pain, suffering, and traumas we have experienced in the past as incomplete human beings.
By stepping out of self-judgment and into self-acceptance, we can move into a place of amazing beauty and serenity. Please join me on this journey of true self-discovery and living a joy-filled life.